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Rebuilding at 29

There’s a difference between restarting and rebuilding. Starting over suggests failure. A collapse. A dramatic undoing.Rebuilding…
After the Plan

I left home at twenty-three with a plan. A vivid goal in mind. Travel. Live. Be…
Learning to Live Without Certainty

Getting dressed without certainty is one thing. Living without it is another. There is a quiet…
Getting Dressed Without Certainty (Much Like Doing Everything Else)

There’s a particular discomfort in standing in front of your wardrobe and not knowing who you…
On Finding Your Style (and Why It’s Harder Than It Looks)

Finding your personal style is often framed as a destination- a final, polished version of yourself…
Returning Alone

Returning alone has a different weight to it. The movement is the same- the flight, the…
Notes from departures and returns

Airports are often associated with possibility. Departure. Arrival. The promise of somewhere else.But when long distance…
Dating and the Illusion of Choice

Modern dating is defined less by romance and more by countless options. Choice is everywhere- visible,…
Dating in an Age of Distraction

Dating has a way of revealing how present we actually are. Not in theory, but in…
On Dating, Distance and the Quiet Connection

Dating is often described as connection, but it is just as much about distance. As someone…